Sex Before Marriage??

5 Jun

Yes, there are still people who wait until they are married before getting down and dirty for the first time. That’s not the reason for this post. We recently had someone in the store that was getting married for the second time, and she had yet to sleep with her husband-to-be. What?! How do you do that? By the way, this wasn’t his first marriage either.

They had been together for some time and were getting married in less than a month. She was picking out some stuff for the honeymoon and casually mentioned that they had kissed for the first time roughly a month prior. What?! How do you do that? (I know, I sound like a broken record.)

I am not judging what anyone chooses in their personal life. I think that what works for one person won’t necessarily work for another. Case in point, G and I got married less than two months after we met. We have been married for over sixteen years. It hasn’t been easy, but it’s always been worth it. Now, I would like to say that we waited until we got married to have sex, but that would be a load of crap. I did, however, wait till our second date. Yay, me! I will tell you, I would not have been able to marry someone I didn’t know if I was compatible with sexually. I have had plenty of guy friends in my life that I would have been emotionally compatible with. Big difference.

My question is this: Would you marry someone and not sleep with them first, especially if this were your second marriage? Send me your story. I would love to hear from you.

6 Responses to “Sex Before Marriage??”

  1. Pothos Zephyrus February 18, 2013 at 3:22 pm #

    I never had sex in my whole life until I got married. I know — I can barely believe it myself. Of course it was for religious reasons. I believed I would burn in holy hell if I did.

    Now I’m an atheist and I sorely regret all of the years of fucking that I lost. I can’t get that time back.

    Concerning relationships, my wife and I have been married almost 9 years and are very happy. We now have an open marriage, so we obviously don’t believe that sex is for marriage only.

    If I had to do it over again, I would definitely have sex and move in together way before marriage.

  2. barbara February 18, 2013 at 3:27 pm #

    Oh NO!!! Everything could be PERFECT but the sex sucks! Yea that would be a bad marraige from the start. A must to sleep with them. Or at least some nice play time with them before marraige!!! I am getting out of a sexless marraige. I figured after 6 years the sex was never coming back so why even try (other reasons as well) I so plan on having all the sex I can with my boyfriend now!!! and I would marry him in a heart beat the whole package wrapped up in one!!!!

  3. Silly Girl February 18, 2013 at 9:43 pm #

    I’ve been married twice and both times we had great sex before the marriage but little to none afterwards. Can’t say as I will probably ever make a third trip down the aisle. And I don’t believe in living together without marriage. It amazes me how many men don’t have a clue about female orgasms or else don’t care. Funny thing is I come very quickly and over and over but some men including one husband never realized that. Why is it I can have a great fwb but if I love them my stud becomes a dud?

    • admin February 21, 2013 at 6:59 am #

      Don’t give up! Your man is waiting somewhere for you. FWB are fun in the meantime:)

  4. tony February 20, 2013 at 9:55 am #

    There is no way, you always test drive a car right. Me and my wife definately did on the second date. Awesome sex and still is. We have been very adventourous in our marriage and I believe you need to fuck before marriage and make sure you are on the same page.

    • admin February 21, 2013 at 6:57 am #

      We couldn’t agree more!

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